I intentionally got pregnant with my ex’s baby as an act of revenge against him and his new girlfriend.

This is a confession that I don’t know where else to post because it’s something I’m not proud of. <br><br>After my ex and I broke up I sent him a message on Facebook saying, hi how’s it going? Just making small talk. He then told me that he had a new girlfriend and that she was pregnant with his baby. I wished him well, but I have to admit that I was hurt a bit hearing that my ex had moved on so quickly. This was in August 2016. <br><br>I got to talking to someone and we started dating but he wanted to keep it casual. We had sex one time and I got pregnant. I texted him and said not to worry if I don’t get in touch with you it’s because I lost the baby. I went to the doctor and got a prenatal and then I texted him again saying the baby is healthy and that I’m 7 weeks along now. He wanted me to abort the baby but I told him no and he said that he knew I was only keeping the baby as a way to get back at my ex. I denied wanting to do that but honestly that was the reason. <br><br>He only stuck around because he felt bad, but he didn’t want anything to do with the baby. He eventually stopped coming to see me and stopped answering my calls and texts. By then my baby was a few months old. I lost count of the number of times I reached out to him but he didn’t want anything to do with me. <br><br>My ex reached out to me and we wanted to be friends. I told him that I was upset that we broke up so quickly and that he moved on so fast. He said that he didn’t do anything wrong and that we were broken up. I told him that I had a baby and he was shocked. <br><br>I then told my ex that I wanted to be friends because I see your posts on Facebook and I think that you seem like a genuinely good guy and that you deserve to see your baby grow up. He was confused and asked me what I was talking about but then he realized what I was saying and he knew that my baby wasn’t his. He asked me who the baby’s father was and if he was in my baby’s life. But he told me that he wanted to be in the baby’s life and help raise her. He was very sweet and compassionate and truly wanted to be there for me (us). I was so touched by his kindess and so sorry for the fact that I was using him as a way to get back at his girlfriend. <br><br>I then told him that the baby’s father didn’t want anything to do with the baby and he asked me if I was ok and if I wanted to go out for coffee or something. I told him I would like that and we met up. He was so sweet and kept telling me that I was a good person and that I deserved the best. We went to dinner a few days later and he asked me if I was seeing anyone. I told him no and he asked me if I wanted to go on a date with him. I of course said yes. We went on that date and he was so sweet and made me feel beautiful. He even took me to a beautiful spot and he proposed to me. <br><br>I was so shocked that he wanted to marry me and when I said yes he was so happy. He hugged me and kissed me and he told me that he is so happy to have me and the baby in his life. We got married on February 14th 2018 and he went out and bought us a beautiful house. He took me out to really nice restaurants and even surprised me with a trip to the beach. He spoiled me and the baby. The baby calls him Daddy and she loves him so much. <br><br>His ex girlfriend was so angry when she found out that he got married and that I had a child. She messaged him on Facebook and said “I thought we had an understanding that we were going to have an open relationship. Is that why you broke up with me? Because I didn’t want to have an open relationship?” He responded with “we weren’t ever in a relationship” and she was very upset that he said that. <br><br>I felt bad and I told him that he should reach out to her and apologize. He told me that he didn’t have anything to apologize for and that he hopes that she can get on with her life. I insisted that he reach out to her. He told me that she was never his girlfriend and that she was delusional and had made it up to make it seem like they were together. <br><br>I was shocked because I didn’t know that they weren’t together and that she was making it up. But I felt even more guilty because she was making it up and I played right into her delusion and I got pregnant intentionally in an act of revenge against them. <br><br>The funny part is that he had a big house and two SUV’s and a nice car and a good paying job. So when we got married I never had to work again. I know that it was wrong to play with people’s emotions. I don’t condone doing wrong to others. But I have to admit though that I am so happy I did what I did. I’ve been treated like a queen and that feels amazing. <br><br>That’s my confession.