Every night I lie awake while my girlfriend falls asleep then I move her hair so I can change the pillow case.

I don’t know why I’m freaking out but I just wanted to tell someone<br><br>I (f19) have short hair and my girlfriend (f21) has long curly hair that even when she has it in a pony tail it falls out with strings going across her pillow when she sleeps<br><br>We used to sleep on a different set of pillows but we changed them and they’re super soft and fluffy so they get flattened really easily<br><br>She sees it’s flattened every morning and will ask me if I slept on her pillow and I’ll just laugh and say that it’s ok<br><br>But the first few nights I would wake up in the middle of the night and see strands of hair on the pillow I sleep on and I would wake her up to change the pillows<br><br>It was really bad and she was annoyed with me and made me get out of bed and go sleep on the couch so I promised I’d stop<br><br>Now I wait until she falls asleep and move her hair and then change the pillow case it’s really bad <br><br>I don’t regret doing it tho it’s too comfy and I have to smell myself when I’m sleeping<br><br>I didn’t know it was a problem until I told my friend and he said it’s weird asf and I should probably stop<br><br>But I can’t and I don’t know what to do now it’s a stupid problem