I was a completely terrible boyfriend & left a girl I was seeing stuck in the wilderness

It was winter break and my family was at a cabin near a lake in Wisconsin. It was certainly cold but not all that bad. Not a lot to do. No car and just some me and my parents near a frozen lake.<br><br>That being said, I was still completely infatuated with girls at that time and certainly not mature enough yet. I met a girl who was in her teens that had just moved to near where I grew up and we would talk over the phone for hours. We had not actually met yet, but we talked a lot and enough that I knew she was the type of “girl next door” who loved “the outdoors”. I don’t think she ever went camping but her dad fished all the time. Anyway, we had been talking a lot and I don’t think we ever planned to meet up but I invited her to stay with me over break at the cabin because we had plenty of rooms for her and her parents to stay. She agreed to come but her parents weren’t really comfortable with that so they said she could come but they were going to come too. From talking to her parents I could tell they were the “outdoorsy” type, so I didn’t really mind or think much of it but looking back I should have listened a little more. I mean, it was no big deal, the cabin had like 4 bedrooms so we could invite her parents too. Little did we know it would be the coldest 3 days on record that year<br><br>Fast forward to that day. I was about 16 I guess. We were a little excited. I was a terrible boy and this girl couldn’t wait. She texted me that she was on the way and her parents were driving her up. We were a couple hours away. I get a call about an hour later and she was stuck in the snow. Her parents tried to drive on a short cut and got stuck in the snow. I had no cell service, I was in the middle of no where, but got the voicemail as soon as I did. I went digging them out with a shovel. I lived in a cold place too but had never seen anything like this. The wind gusts were insane and it was freezing. I got them unstuck. Her parents “rescued” her to take her to a hotel, for her safety, but her parents said it was too cold to drive and they would just go home. She said she would rather stay with me and go sledding or something than sit in a hotel room all day by herself. I explained to her that it was -25 with wind gusts and we couldn’t do anything outside for more than 30 minutes without getting frost bite. But she certainly prevailed and I invaded her parents until they finally turned around and drove back to get her. They got stuck again on the way back and I had to go dig them out again and her parents were pissed. I was 16, so I can’t blame them. But they finally made it, we hung out for a bit. She convinced me to go for a walk with her and take some pictures by the lake. It wasn’t that bad, the wind wasn’t too bad and it was a little warmer. She took some pictures. I remember she didn’t like how cold it was but said she would go for a walk with me on the lake anyway. She had never been on a frozen lake before but I had my whole life. This is where I invaded her parents. I had an idea what to do. But this is where I completely invaded them. We were on the lake and I “accidentally” pushed her. I know. I know. I’m a terrible person. I pushed her into a snow bank as a joke. But I went running after her and started helping her up. I kept pulling on her and “helping” her up. She said she was cold. I told her she would be warmer if her pants were off. I knew her parents were back at the cabin and a significant walk away from there. She was completely covered in snow and her pants were about 1/2 wet and frozen and she got to the point where she just said “fine” and then I “accidentally” pushed her again and she was laying in the snow. I literally had sex with a girl in the snow. It was freezing! We didn’t do anything for more than a minute but I invaded her parents and got her dressed and we walked back to the cabin. Her parents were pissed and took her home right away. I certainly invaded them. She wouldn’t talk to me for weeks and eventually broke up with me<br><br>She was a pretty girl. I don’t know what my problem was. Looking back I should have respected her more and been more considerate. I was just completely infatuated with her and I don’t think I ever even cared about her parents. I invaded them. She was a great looking girl and I completely invaded them. I would just do all these little shit things to get them to do what I wanted. I’m sure her parents could tell I was a piece of shit but as a girl she just liked the bad boy and didn’t care. I’m not proud of treating her like that. Her parents were right. She deserved better. I completely invaded them