CMV: Most guys don't care if a woman has had a LOT of sex before, and most women don't think that being a virgin is attractive

The following is the story of how I came to this conclusion.<br><br>A friend of mine (who is a guy) was hooking up with a woman (who we'll call Sarah) for a month or so. They met at church (it's relevant later). They were sexually attracted to each other, and they had sex for the first time last week. Shortly after, Sarah asked my friend how many women he'd slept with before. He gave her the number (it was 5). She seemed surprised and asked if he was a virgin before meeting her. He said yes (which was a lie, but it's relevant later). Then she asked if he was saving himself for marriage. He said yes (again, lie). Then she said that she was worried that she'd be his first, because she knew that he'd always remember her as his first, and she didn't want him to feel like he'd wasted his first time on her. He told her not to worry, but then she started talking about how she was glad he hadn't slept with anyone before, and that it was good that he waited. Then she basically said that she was glad that they both waited, and that they could both give each other their virginities. At that point, my friend was like "Sarah, I've had sex with 5 women before. And I know that you have too." Then Sarah started freaking out at him for lying to her, and saying that she knew he was a virgin because he told her so, and that she was a virgin too, and blah blah blah.<br><br>Then my friend was like, "Hang on a minute, you aren't actually a virgin, are you?" and she started crying, saying that yes, she was a virgin. My friend was like, "No, you aren't," and she was like "Yes I am, I haven't had sex with anybody before." My friend was like, "Wait, do you mean that you've done everything else but, and you locally define 'sex' as only being PIV intercourse?" And she was like "Yes, I haven't had 'sex' with anyone before." My friend was like "Oh, well I've gone down on lots of women, and they've gone down on me, and we've all used sex toys together, and you've done all of that with me, so we've basically already had sex." At that point, she just started crying and saying that she was glad that he'd waited, and that it was important to her that she was his first 'real' woman, and that she was glad he'd saved himself for her, and all that nonsense. <br><br>Anyway, my friend and I were talking, and we both agreed that we have no problem with women who have been with a lot of guys before, and we've never met guys who do. And we've both met plenty of women who think that virgin guys are attractive, because they think that it means the guy has more self-control and that he's willing wait for the right woman, and they find that attractive.<br><br>So yeah, I think that most guys don't think that being a virgin is attractive, and most women don't care about how many girls a guy has slept with before. COME AT ME.