How do I get over the embarrassment of finding my boyfriend’s porn?
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I found my boyfriend’s porn collection in the cloud. I didn’t mean to, he shares his cloud account with me so I can get his old templates for his work. I clicked on a weird looking folder and boom there it was, hundreds of videos. It’s so embarrassing. I feel so ashamed. He has never mentioned it to me and now I feel like such a prude. He’s never tried stuff in the videos with me and I’m not sure if I would even be comfortable with trying. <br><br>We’ve been together 5 years and I feel like I just learned something I would have liked to have known sooner. I don’t even know how to talk to him about it. I feel like such a fool. I’m so over this. How do I bring it up? I want him to feel comfortable telling me things, but he should feel comfortable in telling me things about his sex habits. I’m just so backed up in my feelings and I don’t know how to get past this feeling. He’s never given me a reason to doubt him, so I’m really hoping he will be open with me. <br><br>TL/DR: I found boyfriend’s porn and I’m embarrassed.
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