I don’t understand the logic of shaming solitary men for cruising single women around their age while demonizing women who shamelessly parade their children in hopes of a connection with a man who will provide for them emotionally and financially.

I think it’s inhumane to shame men for trying to find a connection with women. A lot of men are rejected and ridiculed for trying so why do we shame the select few that are bold enough to go for a connection with a single woman? Even worse thing is that a lot of men get a lot of backlash for seeking out relationships with women who have children already. It’s fucked up to me personally because as a man it’s not our responsibility to try and create a connection with a woman with dead weight hanging off her back. I don’t feel like that’s wrong at all.