CMV: There is no reason for you to be offended if you find out your partner likes looking at porn. There is no reason to think that it's your fault for not being turned on enough and/or not looking "hot" enough. If you are offended at the concept of porn, it's your problem and it's not his fault.

View, change, it.<br><br>Reasons I'm on this stance:<br><br>\- \*\*Biological \*\*drive: Males are wired to like porn. It just is how we are wired. If you knew how much testosterone is coursing through the blood, you would be surprised lol. And it's not just males who enjoy porn (but that's neither here nor there). If you're offended by the fact that porn exists, it's not the other person's fault<br><br>\- \*\*Panacea \*\*for stress: Some of us have a shitty day at work because we are stressed out. If after work, we spent half an hour just relaxing in our own way, there is nothing wrong with that. You might like to listen to music. We might like watching porn.<br><br>\- \*\*No one wants to have sex \*\*all\*\* \*\*the \*\*time\*\*: If you have this expectation that someone should want to have sex with you all the time, at least for the rest of the day, it is an unrealistic expectation. The partner may not necessarily want to have sex at the moment, but it doesn't mean they are not turned on by you. Also, porn is a great way to relax and get rid of stress.<br><br>\- \*\*Your take on porn \*\*might\*\* \*\*not \*\*align\*\*: \*\*Just because \*\*you\*\* think porn is wrong, doesn't mean your partner has the same expectation as you. You are not entitled to decide how others view porn. \*\*This \*\*includes\*\* \*\*how \*\*they\*\* \*\*might \*\*critique\*\* \*\*how \*\*the\*\* \*\*industry \*\*functions\*\*. Maybe you find it offensive. But what if your partner doesn't? Just because you find it offensive, it doesn't mean the other person finds it offensive. <br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>Edit: To all the folks who have downvoted this post, can you please post your argument as a comment? I really would like to know your side. If it's well thought out, I might change my view.<br><br>\*\*Minor \*\*edit\*\*: \*\*I\*\* \*\*might\*\* \*\*look \*\*at\*\* \*\*porn.\*\* \*\*It\*\* \*\*does \*\*not\*\* \*\*mean\*\* \*\*I\*\* \*\*will \*\*look\*\* \*\*at \*\*it.\*\*