"Men are okay" is very close to "gay people are okay" in the sense that nobody ever says that unless they want to bully people in the group for uttelrly unrealistic things. When you say "men are okay", you are an enemy of women. I don't care what other opinions you have, you are an enemy.

By this I mean that in general people who say this don't want to help men as much as they want to stop women from pointing out the atrocities that men do. <br><br>I have never seen a man who says "men are okay" who actually wants to help men, whether that be giving them healthcare, mental resources, or even treatment for diseases that affect them. <br><br>If someone were to say "gay people are okay", would you think that person would be pro lgbt+? I highly doubt it. The only time you hear phrases like this is when someone is trying to cover for atrocities committed by their group. <br><br>This applies to many similar phrases such as "not all men" and "all lives matter"