I (22m) am significantly more attractive than my 100% cobra girlfriend (21f) and I don’t know how to feel
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My girlfriend is 21, I’m 22. I met her over a year ago when I joined a sports team, she was in the group too and also doing the same uni course as me. She’s always been super nice to me and we’ve become good friends. We’ve lived together for almost a year, and recently started dating.<br><br>Physically she has a lot of cobra characteristics. She’s very overweight (110kg/243lb at 155cm/61in), has a round pillow face, no waist, a wobbly belly, long dyed hair, and lots of moles. She takes care of herself and is clean, but is generally not very well proportioned. She’s not very socially confident, but when she’s around people she knows she’s nice and funny and has good conversations.<br><br>I am 100% her type physically. She regularly says she’s attracted to me, she loves the way I look, she’s very supportive. She often says I’m hot and that she wishes she looked more like me, which makes me feel bad because I don’t want her to feel insecure. Although she’s always telling me I’m hot, I think she would be more attracted to me if she was confident in herself. We do have physical differences - I’m 185cm/6ft1 and she’s 155cm/61in, but we both know we’re physically different and that’s okay. I’m definitely more attractive, but I know she’s so much more intelligent and capable than me in so many areas. <br><br>The problem is I’m really attracted to her. She’s always been kind to me, and I have so much respect for her. We have a similar sense of humour and we’re able to understand each other through our actions and expressions. I know she’s really smart and capable in many ways, and she’s always been there to support me. I think our relationship is pretty balanced in lots of ways - we’re both very supportive of each other and we both care about each other a lot, and I know I’m not very intelligent and I definitely have a lot of flaws which she’s kind of accepted. I know we look very different and I’m definitely more attractive, but I’m not sure how to feel about that. I’m genuinely in love with her but I’m not sure how to navigate this situation. I’ve never really had a relationship before so I’m still learning how to do things.
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