AITA for refusing to let my husband sleep with our baby next to my head?

I had a c-section just a few days ago, and my husband brought me and our baby girl home. My recovery has been going well so far, but I’m exhausted and my husband is too. Our baby is sleeping in a bassinet right next to our bed for now.<br><br>I told my husband that once I’m feeling better I’ll start having sex with him again, but I didn’t give him a specific date. He has been initiating sex since before I even left the hospital. I have a huge scar on my stomach and my vagina is very sensitive right now. I also don’t want to risk messing up my c-section scar. I keep telling him no, but he keeps asking.<br><br>I had a breakdown and cried because I’m so tired and in pain. My husbandComforted me and apologized for pushing me to have sex. He promised me that he would let me decide when we have sex again. A few hours later, our baby started crying non stop and wouldn’t stop. My husband checked her diaper and gave her a bottle, but she still wouldn’t stop crying. I was too tired to comfort her, and my husband put her on my lap and said she needed to be next to her mommy because she’s upset. She did calm down a little bit being next to me.<br><br>He then took our baby and put her on my right side. I was annoyed because he knows I sleep on my right side, so I switched sides and he put the baby next to me again. I told him to put her in her bassinet because I need to sleep. He told me that our baby is upset and needs to be next to her mommy because she misses me. I’m so tired and angry and I told him to stop using our baby to get me to sleep with him. I then went to the extra bedroom and fell asleep.<br><br>When I woke up this morning, my husband was angry with me. He said that I accused him of using our baby to get sex from me. He admitted that he did that, and said he’s horny and needs to have sex with me. I told him that I’m still too tired and in pain to have sex with him, and he told me that he’s tired too. He then said that he might start looking for a friend with benefits, and I told him not to even think about it. He then said that he’s going to tell his family that I’m denying him sex, and I told him to do it because I really don’t care.<br><br>AITA here?