Some dude wanted to breed my daughter

Hello guys. I am an adult woman and my daughter is 22, not a child. I am having trouble with my mentally ill brother and my dad, it’s pretty complicated stuff but my dad at least partially knows how much my brother has hurt me. He has seen messages, knows my feelings on breastfeeding, knows (or at least suspects) that I was groomed by my brother as he will not even die. But here is what my dad said when I told him that my brother implied he was going to have sex with my daughter when she is older: “[your brother] he wants to be your children’s dad… he’s a freak….. But I didn’t believe [your brother implied he was going to have sex with your daughter]”. <br><br><br><br>Wait what? Your children’s DAD? Has he implied he wanted to be their DAD before? But it’s not just my dad. My brother has said something along the lines of “Call me DAD” to my daughter before, so I can’t help but wonder how many times my dad’s let my brother in our home even though he is a groomer and pedophile. I have argued with my dad about this, and he is still denying it but I know this is true! I’ve heard it myself. So I guess he’s allowed some pedophile to groom my daughter, my brother has also asked my daughter after she was 18 if she thought I was hot (he did this because he was mad that my daughter was mad that he claimed he wanted to breastfeed me and refused to admit he did not want to do that). I know my dad knew my brother wanted to breastfeed me and wanted to do other creepy sexual things to me. But he implied he wanted to be my daughter’s dad to me. Not the other way around, he was the adult and said he wanted my children to call him “DAD” but this was before my daughter was born. I’ve always felt like my dad was trying to hurt me and my daughter, even when I was a kid.