AITA for kicking my friends son out of my house for going in my daughters room? My wife is a freak out.

I woke up in the middle of the night to a noise. When I got out of the bedroom, I noticed one of the open doors was my daughters room. I walked in and my friends son was in my daughters room. He was crouched on the ground. I immediately sent him home.<br><br>My wife is mad at me for sending him home without waking everyone up. She called it an over reaction. I told her it was not cool. She thinks I should have just asked him what he was doing. He’s only 14. My daughter is 16. I told her to stay in her room and go back to sleep for a couple days. She called me an asshole for sending her friends brother home.