AITA for not telling my husband I am going on a break with the kids?

Me (37F) and my husband (38M) have 3 kids, (12M), (7F) and (4M).<br><br>My husband and I both work full time. I work like 45 min away from home, and he works a 10 minute walk away. I cannot move my job any closer.<br><br>I have to drop off the kids to school in the morning, and I have to be at work by 8.30 a.m. I usually pick them up 4 p.m and bring them home. My office does allow me to work from home, but I don't like it.<br><br>My husband starts work at 2 p.m. and finishes work at 11 p.m. He is always free until 1.30 p.m so I asked if he could drop off the kids in the morning since I have to leave earlier than he does.<br><br>He didn't really like this and said it took up too much of his time in the mornings. I suggested he drop them off in the morning, and I pick them up after leaving work and bring them home. He agreed but said I had to pick up dinner for them and not leave it on him to find something for them to eat.<br><br>So this is my routine now. I drop them off in the morning to school, I leave for work and come home around 5.30 p.m, I take them to a restaurant to eat and then come home.<br><br>He comes home at 11 p.m and usually brings a take away for himself. I used to leave some food in the fridge for him but he said it doesn't taste good when its cold, and I was wasting his money.<br><br>My sister baby sat for me for 5 days last week while I went on a short holiday with the kids. She said it was okay but the morning drop offs were a bit tiring for her and she had to skip some of her classes to do it.<br><br>I went on a short vacation to the beach with my kids for 7 days. My sister took care of the kids for the first 5 days and my mom took care of them for the last two days. I told my husband I was going away for work for 5 days and he agreed to my sister staying at the house. I said I would come home on the 6th day and he agreed.<br><br>After my sister left, my mom stayed over and looked after the kids.<br><br>My husband was surprised to see me walking in the door on the 7th day since he thought I was coming home on the 6th. He was very very upset when he found out I had gone on a holiday and taken the kids with me. He said he had to spend 2 weeks wages on take away food and that it was expensive.<br><br>I told him the money he spent on food was nothing compared to the free child care he got for 1 week. He said it was still his money and he spent it because I lied to him and said I was going away for work. <br><br>AITA?