My (21f) boyfriend (25m) of 3 years told me he was coming over to (my apartment) watch Netflix with me. He showed up on my door step with a date that was wearing the same outfit I was wearing. I don’t know how to feel.

First post. I never knew what crazy was until today.<br><br>I’ve known my boyfriends for almost 10 years. We went to high school together and we just clicked. We’ve been together for 3 years and been living together for 2. He is the perfect guy.<br><br>This was the most shocking day ever. I woke up, went to the gym, did some grocery shopping, came home, cooked dinner, and watched some tv. I was bored so I called my boyfriend at work and asked him if he was coming over or if I should come over. I said I was bored and wanted to watch Netflix so he told me to come over to his place because he could not leave work until 5 and didn’t want to drive back out. I told him fine whatever and that I’m driving so we could watch the show I wanted to.<br><br>I got to his apartment and he was already dressed and ready to go so we left. On the way here, he started acting strange. When we got to my apartment, I asked him if he was okay and he said he was. We walked to the door and I unlocked it but he didn’t walk in. I asked him again if he was okay and he said yes. I asked him why he wasn’t walking in but then he told me “We’re not coming in”. Then out of no where I see a woman appear from the side of my apartment and a man that I recognized as his best friend walking towards us with a girl attached to his waist.<br><br>The woman that was with my boyfriend was wearing the EXACT same outfit I was wearing. Same hair and nails too. The girl with his friend was wearing my friends outfit. We were both wearing a black long sleeve shirt, with some leggings and UGGs. Our hair was in buns with a few loose strands of hair hanging down. Our nails were done with a gel overlay and they were a French tip style. My nail tech does them really long and pointy with a little flower on the ring finger. His friend’s and girlfriend’s nails matched perfectly.<br><br>I didn’t know what to say. I was speechless. His friend and his girlfriend got into their car and left. I asked my boyfriend what the hell was going on and he just shrugged me off. I asked the lady who she was and she told me she was his other girlfriend and that they’ve been seeing each other for a year. I let her know that we’ve been dating for 3 years and that he doesn’t have time to date other people since he’s always at work. She told me he’s a liar and that he spends the night with her sometimes during the week. I asked her if she knew about me and she said that I’m not the only one he’s been cheating on her with and that she found out about 2 other girls he was talking to. I wasn’t sure if I believed her but she pulled out her phone and showed me pictures of him and her together and pictures of texts between them.<br><br>The one that caught my eye was him calling her baby and telling her he loved her. The next text was her replying that she loved him too and asking him if he loved her more than the other girls. He replied that he didn’t love the other girls like he loved her and that he only loved her. The last text was her telling him she knew he was still with his “ex” and him replying that they weren’t together anymore and that she was just his roommate.<br><br>After seeing those texts, I started crying. I have never cried so hard in my life. He kept telling me to stop and that he was sorry and that it wasn’t my fault. I started to get the shakes and couldn’t breathe. His “other girlfriend” and I went inside my apartment and she held me while I cried. She kept telling me it wasn’t my fault and that he was the piece of shit that did this.<br><br>After almost an hour of crying, we started to talk. She asked me questions about him and I answered them. He texted me saying he was on his way back to my apartment and that we needed to talk. She told me she didn’t want to talk to him but she could stay with me if I wanted her to. I told her ok and asked her if she could stay for a minute. She agreed and told me not to worry about it.<br><br>I walked outside and my boyfriend was standing outside my apartment, smoking. I asked him what the hell was going on and he told me that it was an experiment. He said he wanted to test our relationship and see how strong it was. I asked him what the hell he meant by that and he told me his friend was doing the same thing. He said he timed it to where we all got home at the same time so we could run into each other. He said he hired the lady and his friend hired the other lady. He said it was a social experiment. I asked him why in the hell he would do that and that I wasn’t a test dummy, I was his girlfriend. He told me he was sorry and didn’t know how bad it was gonna hurt me. He told me I was his girlfriend and that he loved me and that he didn’t love anyone else. I asked him why he texted his experiment saying he loved her if he didn’t love her. He told me he was just playing the part and that it didn’t mean anything. I asked him if I should play the part too then and he told me no and that he wanted me to be with him. I told him I wasn’t his girlfriend anymore and that he needed to leave. He kept calling and texting me but I keep blocking his number.<br><br>I don’t even know how to feel. I’m hurt and angry and I don’t know what to do.<br><br>Update: I called my mom and she picked me up. My dad is coming to get my stuff on Saturday. The other woman and I are going to file a police report. There is a lot of text messages exchanged between them discussing the experiment and that it was premeditated. My dad is moving me to a different state. I’m heartbroken but I’m moving on.