I refuse to let my husband break my sons spirit

I have a 13 year old son and 16 year other son. My husband is a very toxic and emotionally abusive person and I’m finally at my breaking point. <br><br>My sons are amazing and I’m so proud of them and I refuse to let my husband destroy them. <br><br>I’ve come to realize my husband is a narcissist. He is always criticizing everything they do and makes fun of them in front of their friends. I’ve tried to talk to him but he get angry and tells me I’m babying them. <br><br>My husband told my youngest son he is a disappointment and will never be anything in life. He said he is stupid and unattractive. <br><br>I don’t know what to do. I don’t have the money to afford a divorce lawyer. My son doesn’t deserve this and I feel so guilty I didn’t get out of this marriage sooner.