Polyamory is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard of.

I got a message on Tinder from a woman who seemed pretty cool. We chatted for a while, and it seemed like things were going well. Then she told me that she was in a relationship. It was a polyamory relationship where "everyone is cool with it" and that "we all agreed on this". I could not fathom how 3 people could possibly come to the conclusion that this is okay and makes everybody happy. This woman and her boyfriend have been dating for 3 years, and she claims that things are as good as ever between them. I don't doubt that, human beings have the capacity to convince themselves of just about anything, but I sure as hell don't want to be a part of that.<br><br>My take on polyamory is that it's doing something you know that you would never be okay with if your partner was doing it to you, but you justify it by somehow convincing yourself that you're doing it for the right reasons. If you think that polyamory works for you, then hey, that's your prerogative, but it seems absolutely ridiculous to me and I wouldn't be involved with somebody who thinks that that's how relationships should work for the life of me.