My (35M) wife (32F) kept me up all night before an important work project, and I don't know what to do
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I'm in a bit of a pickle. I have a very important work project tomorrow, and I'm kind of stuck on what to do. So, here's what happened... <br><br>I have a big project due at work in two days, and I was up late doing the last finishing touches of it. My wife started hitting me up on Messenger, asking when I was going to be done with work. I told her I was doing the finishing touches of my project and said I'd be done in about a half hour or hour. She then texts me again, asking if I could look over her resume for a job she's applying for. She said it was only 2 pages, but when I opened the pdf it was 4 or 5 pages. I'm trying not to be lazy, and tell myself "it's not that big of a deal", but whenever I'm almost done, she keeps on hitting me up randomly. I finish at 12:30am or something, and go to bed. I wake up 2 hours later to her saying she's sick. I stumble out of bed, bleary eyed, and make her a bowl of chicken noodle soup. I bring her the bowl, and she says she's also thirsty, so I go make her some tea/lemonade. I then go to the kitchen to throw out the trash, and she tells me that she also needs a sick note for work/has a sick note that needs to be filled out. I'm starting to get a little irritated at this point, and tell her that unless she needs an ambulance, she can wait. I go to bed, and she hits me up asking me if I can give her a sick note. I get out of bed again, fill out the sick note, and then give it to her. She still looked/acted fine btw. She then tells me to email it to her boss, so I go to my office and do that. I thought that everything was finally done, and I could go to sleep. Nope. She hits me up again after that saying she was scared being alone, and could I come to bed with her. I'm so tired that I can barely keep my eyes open at this point, but go to bed with her. She was perfectly fine, and I don't think she was actually sick. I had a hard time falling asleep, and kept on thinking about all the stuff she was making me do. I'm so tired right now, and I don't know what to do. I have a feeling that she's going to keep on hitting me up randomly if I don't say something about last night. I don't know what to do because she's very stubborn, and I don't want to start a fight on the actual day of my project. Any thoughts on this? Also, I should add that this is our first year of marriage and we don't have kids together. I'm just really irritated rn, and need to get something off my chest.<br><br>Edit because I guess I need to clarify some things: I don't think she's trying to sabotage my project. I was just irritated because she kept on asking me random things even though it was 3am. I also was up for nearly 24 hours, and had 0 sleep. I'm also feeling a bit burnt out recently from work. I also just turned 35 recently, and the last year or so has been a bit stressful.
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