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I saw my ex with a new girl, he introduced her to me with “This is my girlfriend!”....yep I’ve never felt so irrelevant and humiliated in my life

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Hey guys,<br><br>This happened to me yesterday and I’m still reeling from it. It was like a punch to my gut. I literally felt physically sick and dizzy after it happened. It’s been a long time (8 months) since he broke up with me and I’ve been doing fine. In fact, I’ve been better than fine…..on to the story.<br><br>I was walking down the hallway towards my apartment. I live in a mid rise apartment complex, and I share the floor with about 50 other apartments. As I was walking down the hall, I saw my ex walking towards me, he lived in the apartment across from mine when we were together. It was the first time I have seen him in 3 months, and as I’m walking towards him, I see that he’s with this girl. He’s got his arm around her, and she’s sleek and sexy looking, way more attractive than me. As we approached each other, he smiled at me and said “Hey pwecious! (that was his nickname for me)”....he then proceeded to introduce me to his new girlfriend. I was shocked, I didn’t know what to say. As soon as he introduced me to her, I said “Oh, nice to meet you” and I tried to walk around them. I was literally shaking as I walked into my apartment. I know he did it on purpose. I know he wanted to humiliate me and make me feel irrelevant. He’s always been a little cruel at times in the way he got pleasure in hurting me, so I know this wasn’t an accident. I’ve been in tears since it happened and I’m still feeling so hurt and humiliated. I feel like I can’t show my face there. I don’t want to see him or her again. He’s the only man I’ve ever loved, and he broke my heart. I’ve built myself back up over the past 8 months, and with one single action, he just tore me down again. Ugh.<br><br>If anyone has ever experienced this, how did you feel? How did you move on from it? Did you feel like you wanted to crawl under a rock and hide?<br><br>Edit: Thanks to all for the replies....I understand that it was a bad situation, but I should move on. I think I need to get offline for a little bit, my self esteem is already in shambles. This was kind of a last resort for advice, because I don’t know who else to turn to. Everyone I know is sick of hearing about it. <br><br>I most certainly won’t be moving. I just signed a new lease for a year and I don’t think my landlord would allow me to move anyway. Also, moving would be too much stress for me, I just don’t have the energy or mental capacity for it. I’m already feeling like I don’t want to get out of bed.

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