Dead serious question. If we love and appreciate chubby women so much, then why do we not use our own voices to tell them?

I don't understand why we use the anonymity of Chambers to express our love and appreciation for chubby women. I do not see the intersection of "being chubby" and "being anonymous." I can't imagine that a woman would rather have men on the internet telling her she was pretty than the men in front of her. I don't understand why we feel so entitled to express our self-serving opinions to people we have never met. I don't understand why we don't use our voices to tell our wives, our girlfriends, our co-workers, and our friends how pretty and wonderful and appreciated they are. I don't understand why we need to be part of a group to be able to do something so basic and easy as complimenting people. I don't understand why we don't speak up when people around us are being mean to chubby people. I don't understand why we care about women we don't even know. I don't understand why we don't love and appreciate the women in our lives first.<br><br>What is it about being pro chubby that requires anonymity?