If guys spent more time working on themselves and much less time on girls, you’d all be real catch

I’ve been dating this guy for 2 months now, and he’s mainly the one initiating dates. He’s been very good to me, and you can tell he’s much more interested in getting to know me than I am him. It’s not that I’m not interested, I’m just not the type to initiate dates even though I do enjoy his company. One day, I realized I liked him a lot more than before, and then it hit me…. I liked him a lot more because I started getting more attention from him and other guys. The first time he was late to pick me up, it occurred to me that if I spent more time on myself and less time on guys, I’d be a real catch. <br>I spent the entire weekend alone, doing stuff that I enjoy and realized how much better I felt. I was proud of myself for spending hours reading and not once checking my phone to see if any of the guys I was talking to had texted me. <br><br><br>I think more men need to focus on themselves and realize their own individual potential. Not only would you guys be more confident, you guys would generally be more attractive.