This is my first time on Chambers, I'm a 17 year old soon to be 18 in a month girl.

I've always known of it but I never have been on Chambers, I made an account cos I found an interesting sub, but then I started clicking on random subs and that got me to this. So I clicked here out of curiosity. I've read like 3 posts and I'm done. I will share my honest thoughts about what I saw. <br><br>1. The first post: I don't understand how this turns you on. Watching a grown man die in front of you...<br>2. I don't judge people for being virgins, if that's what they want. But when you shame people for having partners, having sex or having casual hook ups, that's a major red flag. If you call a woman a whore for having casual sex (especially at 17/18..) then your mentality is sick and you have your own issues. You need to grow up and get a life. No normal person shames others for THEIR OWN sex life. <br><br>The second post I read was about this: <br>"Why are women allowed to do whatever they want but if a man does it, he is shamed?"<br>It was so poorly written. Many responses as well were of the same poorly written standard as the post but I digress.<br><br>If you get exposed on social media for hitting a women, it's because you hit a woman. It's not suddenly this big controversy because you're a man and she's a woman. NO, it's because it's WRONG. And trust me, if a woman hits a man, she'll also get backlash online, but it's just more common for men to hit women cos women are smaller. So they're advantage in strength preceeds them punching a woman and thinking they can get away with it. Also, it's a patriarchal society. Which means it's run by men. So yes, men have more power than women because women have been held back for centuries. <br><br>3. I saw a post about a 13 year old got blueballed by his 15 year old gf. What. The. Hell. <br>So a 13 year old is dating a 15 year old? That's a big age gap. And how are you even dating as a 13 year old, isn't that a bit young? Also, someone commented saying a 13 year old atleast has a chance while us "40 year old virgins" won't. So someone on here is 40 and still a virgin? That's so sad. I don't get how you can blame women for being a virgin when you're 40. That's got nothing to do with anyone else and everything to do with yourself. It's an issue. I feel bad for you all. <br><br>4. Last post I saw was a comment about how "you're not lonely if you have a pet" and all this stuff... Honestly, I'm sorry but someone commented saying atleast he isn't lonely and atleast he has a pet. He's still lonely, he's just got a pet. Being lonely isn't just about having no one physically around you, it's about feeling lonely. If he feels lonely, he can still feel lonely with a pet around him. I know that's the case for lots of people. I have a cat and I'm still lonely. But I'm happy for him though. That's very different. I'm not ashamed to admit I'm lonely. But I'm also happy to have a cat.<br><br>In summary, you all need to grow up. Stop blaming women for YOUR OWN sex life, YOUR OWN loneliness and your own issues. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. It's no one else's fault but your own. Sorry, but stop feeling sorry for yourself and get a life. <br>(Btw I'm not here to make friends, I just posted this. I will not be back)<br>Also, I'm sorry if this is the wrong sub.. I'm literally brand new to Chambers and I clicked on the first thing that said incels. Which was this. I didn't realise this was an 'unofficial' sub. I don't care, I've posted this, I'm leaving.<br><br>Edit: I really didn't expect it to blow up like this. I'm just going to state that I'm aware you're not all like this. I appreciate that. I was 17, now 18... I don't have much life experience, so I'm sorry if my responses didn't fit the "standard". Also, I understand your struggles and it doesn't help that society shames people for being lonely or a virgin, but it doesn't help you to blame others for that. It's not the fault of women so stop blaming us. It's internalised misogyny and it's pathetic. I don't understand where all the hate for women is coming from. It literally makes no sense. Go outside, enjoy the world, get a hobby, etc...