I have a massive crush on my coworker but I can't bring myself to even say hi to her
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I'm new at my place of work and I got held up in training but now I'm on my own and I get to go around to each department (warehouse) and pick up our items and do orders and stuff. All these departments are located outside the main building and I have 2 coworkers who are also doing this job in the same building as me. <br><br>One is a male coworker in his 30's, the other is a female coworker who is 20. We all sit in the same area in the main building and we're all doing the same job. We're all on friendly terms, but I don't talk to them much. We all know each others names and stuff and we're all in the training process.<br><br>Here's the problem: I've gotten a massive crush on my female coworker. She is really hot and I can tell she's really sweet too. She's pretty fun to be around, however, I only see her like 2 times a day at most, so I don't really have a great read on her personality yet. She's always been nice to me, but she's nice to everyone. <br><br>This is the problem: I feel like she's definitely out of my league, so I just haven't even said anything to her except what I need to say to her at work, like "you good?" or "how's it going?" but I'm seriously interested in her and I'm starting to think that I'm gonna have to get over it.<br><br>My male coworker has been in the job longer and has already been out in the warehouses, so he's really helpful and he goes out of his way to walk me through the job initially, so he would be out there for hours with me, and after he'd go back to the main building to do his orders he'd keep asking me questions like "you good?" and I'd be like "yeah I'm good" and he'd ask during the day how things are going if I need any help, and he gave me his phone number to text him with any questions I have and he always answers and stuff. He even went out of his way to train me on the scanners we have to use for the job, he showed me all the tricks to make the job go by more smoothly, and he's just been really cool about everything. <br><br>My female coworker has been a lot less helpful. I think she's pretty new too, but she was a lot less friendly and patient and she didn't really explain a lot to me, and even though I know she's also still in training that really annoyed me tbh, but now that I'm out on my own and I'm doing the job I have no problems talking to her. She also doesn't really talk to me much tbh. <br><br>Since I've started going out to the warehouses, I'm out there 4-6 hours a day and I don't see her for the entire day, and I don't see her in the main building for most of the day either. I see her once at the beginning, and then maybe again at lunchtime, and then again towards the end of the day. Anyway it doesn't even matter, she's nice and all but she seems really standoffish to me. I feel like she's intimidated by me and I want to break the ice and get to know her but it feels like I'm the one who intimidates her and I don't know why.<br><br>I honestly feel like she likes me in some way. She always looks at me and smiles at me and stuff, and she's a lot more friendly now than she was when I first met her. Maybe she just enjoys talking to me, but I don't know.<br><br>I just really wish I could break the ice with her and I've tried but I don't know what to say. I feel really self-conscious and I feel like I'm gonna do something stupid and I don't know if she'll even be nice to me, but I can tell she's not a mean person.<br><br>This is literally the only thing that's been on my mind lately. It's like I don't care if I do the job right, I don't care about anything, I just want to be around her and I really don't know how to do that. I'm running out of training hours and I'm just gonna be on my own soon and I don't know if I'll ever see her after that.
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