My wife of 30 years cheated on me. Then I cheated on my wife. What goes around come around.

My wife started having an affair about a month after I retired. I was lost for a while; I had no idea what to do. I knew nobody in the small town we retired to. I was spending a lot of time alone at home. The one good thing that came out of that time was I discovered the joys of walking for fun. <br><br>I had always enjoyed walking but retirement gave me the time to spend walking. I decided to walk a different neighborhood every day. I made sure to walk at the same time of day, and at the same pace each day. I didn't want people to think I was casing houses. <br><br>On one of my walks I found her. It was a couple of years before I figured out she was my neighbor, and I had walked past her house more than a 100 times. Having an affair with my wife's husband didn't seem to bother her. She told me right up front she was married. I made it clear I was also married and we both agreed we had no desire or intention of ending our marriages. Also, I never went to her house, and she never came to mine. <br><br>I know some of you will think I am lying. My wife and I are in marriage counseling. The counselor doesn't believe me when I say I didn't start cheating first. I have no proof I didn't cheat first but I'm telling you I didn't. <br><br>So, if you're a woman who wants to cheat on her husband with a married man then I'm your guy. Be warned though; I am in my 60s and not in the best shape in the world.