Why do women shit test men to see if they're actually men?

Women want men to just completely ignore them when they do something wrong, like it's every man's responsibility to prove that they're not a pussy to every woman they interact with.<br><br>Like when you're arguing with a woman and she tells you to "shut up". If you say "no, you shut up", she'll go on and on about how you're saying a woman should shut up, when that's just the literal meaning of what you said. <br><br>Or when you're talking with a woman and she flashes a cleavage and you check her out, she'll pretend to be mad at you not because you checked her out, but because you *noticed* her, as if any man could *not* notice a half-naked woman.<br><br>Is it just female solipsism? Do they think that just because they can't do "manly" things that no man can either?