She’s gone and it feels amazing.

I’ve posted about my wife before, but it’s been awhile.<br>To make a long story short, she basically used me for a visa and then proceeded to be the laziest and most selfish person I have ever met.<br>She would make 27k/yr and not work half the week, and still managed to spend more than she made. I begged her to get a second job, her response was “nah, I’m fine. I’ll just ask my parents for money”.<br>She had no friends because she was so cold. She would never call her parents, her sister, or her friends back home. She never did anything for me (like, literally raised an eyebrow at the thought of cooking a meal for me), she never did anything for her family, she never even took the trash out.<br>She never spoke to my parents or siblings. She would be at my parents house for dinner, they would be speaking to her, she would ignore them. I was humiliated. Her response was “she doesn’t like me, I don’t like her”. Oh, and by the way, a year ago my mom bought my wife a plane ticket to go home for two weeks, and while she was there she never called me once. Her response was “I was with my family, and I was exhausted, I was busy but I did call you once, don’t lie”. I don’t even know what to say to that. I was good to her, so were my parents.<br>I put up with that shit for four years, and 4 months ago she told me she was sick of my complaining and she wanted a divorce. I laughed, and told her I wasn’t going to pay for her Green Card. I told her she needed to get a fucking job, and stop being so lazy.<br>She told me it was too late, she had already spoken to a lawyer, and she wasn’t going to waste her time finding work when she was going to leave me soon anyway. After that, she basically treated me like a roommate, and I treated her like one back.<br>I came home from work today and she was gone. I looked in the fridge, all of her shit was gone, there was a note on the fridge telling me she will be in touch with her lawyer soon.<br> FUCKING finally.<br>I’m 29 years old, and for the first time in my life I feel like I’m my own man.<br>Fuck women.<br>Fuck marriage.<br>FUCK divorce lawyers.<br>FUCK shaky, LAYZ, Seattle IT bitches.