I'm in the wrong sub

I've been following this debate, and I'm a man. I wasn't raised this way, but I'm not sure if I think this sub is GOOD for feminism. I've seen multiple instances of "kill all men" (which must be sarcasm), justifying violence "because of my experiences" and lots of other stuff. If I wanted to be a feminist, I wouldn't want to be associated with this movement. I don't know if you guys don't understand that you're causing harm (I have no idea why that would be the case) and I don't know if you guys are capable of rational thought (which is valid, if you guys have experienced that much trauma). But from how I've seen this sub interact with people, I don't think it's doing the movement any good. I'll now get downvoted for speaking my mind.