Unpopular opinion: You are not incel because society doesn’t allow you to be polygynous

Let’s not confuse “society doesn’t allow me to have a harem” with being incel. <br><br>Having sex with one person is not incel. <br><br>Incel is by definition somebody who is unable to find a partner. Being unable to find multiple partners is not the same thing. <br><br>Richard Stallman is a great example of this. He was a very ugly, socially awkward man who could not find a long term monogamous partner. However, he enjoyed the company of younger women who enjoyed his genius level intellect and liked to have sex with him. He had so many sexual partners in his life and enjoyed regular sex with many different women until he was in his 60’s. <br><br>Richard Stallman is not incel. <br><br>He was a polygynist who enjoyed regular sex with many women.