any females with a uterus, men want to control, is this just the world we live in now?

I am a female with PCOS, which inturn makes me infertile. Yet I am still expected to abide by the rules of providers, they don't let us use our bodies how we want to. We can't just opt for tubal ligation anymore, we must wait until 30, or after our first child. We can't choose abortion, yet we can be forced to do whatever it is they want.