Feeling yourself is really overrated

Proponent of the idea that you gotta like yourself is insecure and coping honestly. <br><br>Ill help you understand why Im right. If you like yourself, its because you feel youve overcome your flaws. Very seldom do we ever like ourselves because we just feel good. Its more like "hey i went to a therapist, im tidy now. I dont have a substance abuse problem. Im nowadays more patient and dont rage out at people. This is a better man,". You arent just sitting around appreciating yourself. We dont just do that. Instead were anxious about things we dont like about ourselves. <br><br>Most of the time we dont like ourselves so much because we just dont like ourselves. We feel like were burdening people, were stupid, were too needy, etc. I dont like myself 90% of the time and I dont think anyone else likes themselves either. Once you know that, you can stop pretending that you dont have low self esteem when really you do.