I (M37) just wanted a little family, and a wife. But my girlfriend (F30)

She wants to be a strong independant woman, she says. <br><br>But she also wants to have kids, and a man, and to share a home. <br><br>I asked my last girlfriend why she worked if she hated her job so much, and she told me with an annoyed look on her face that she needed something to do with her time. <br><br>It's been like pulling teeth getting this one to talk about what she wants. But when I ask her, I get answers like "I want to be able to support myself and make my own decisions, but I also don't see why I should support myself when I have a husband to do that for me." And, "I want a man to come home to at the end of the day, but I don't see why I should have to clean or cook for him." <br><br>I asked if that was fair of her. She said that I should be happy to have a wife and be able to provide for her. I asked why she wouldn't be willing to provide for me as well, and she scoffed. <br><br>She also went on about how it's not fair that men get to do the fun jobs. That women are just as smart as men but no one ever lets them do anything important, so they end up as teachers or nurses. I suggested she go into stem, and she shrugged and said she didn't want to.<br><br>I also broached the topic of chores. I told her I would be happy to go 50/50, but she said splitting it down the middle wasn't fair since she was going to be the one to carry and deliver a baby. I asked her how long she thought that process would keep her from doing chores, and she just scoffed again. <br><br>I'm honestly a little perplexed. I thought I was asking for simple things, but the more I talk to her the more I realize that I want nothing to do with marriage or relationships.