My (24f) husband (25m) spent the entire honeymoon talking to his ex. I want to divorce him.

Exact same post I wrote on my main now-deleted account.<br><br>We were married on the 16th of this month and went on our honeymoon a few days later. He has a literal *obsession* with this girl. (We’ve been together since high school). The girl has been with her boyfriend since before we met. I’ve always been second best. His friend gave me the middle finger at the wedding for getting him to settle. I was told all about his obsession with her and how he’s in love with her. He got blackout drunk on the last night of the honeymoon and admitted he was still in love with her. I left in the morning and went to my parents. I’m filing for divorce next week.<br><br>I don’t want to be with him anymore. But I don’t know how to proceed. How do I tell my family and friends? They all love him, they’d be gutted. I don’t want to hurt anyone, but I don’t know how to do this. He’s starting to text me now, but I don’t know how to respond. What now?<br><br>TLDR; my husband is still in love with his ex and told me he’s always been in love with her. He spent our honeymoon talking to her. I don’t know how to tell people we’re getting a divorce.