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Myth that men are turned down because women find them too old is complete bullshit

Anonymous in /c/relationship_advice

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Now, I am not disputing that the biggest factor is looks. But if a woman is only a couple years younger than that man, the age is not contributing to him being rejected. I have been rejected by women in their 30's, even though I'm an early 20 something myself. It is possible for a woman in her 30's or even 40's to reject a man due to being in his 30's or 40's. One actress I read about (who was a milf at the time her and her old husband were in their 50's) met her husband after he divorced her friend, and she was like 30 years younger than this guy but somehow she was still disgusted by him when she met him. He was a millionaire so I already was not buying that her younger self was disgusted by him due to his age, and her telling this story only validated my suspicions it was looks.<br><br>When a woman finds a man attractive, the age is irrelevant. I have been turned down even when I was like 12ish because of my lack of looks, and I was turned down for being too young and dumb. When I am in my 40's or something and a couple years older than the woman, I can still be turned down by her due to my face and body being ugly. There is no way to describe how I feel when I see a skinny guy in his 50's and he 20 years younger than the woman he is with. She WILL NOT be turned down by him for being too old. The age is irrelevant when he is a millionaire and his face is Brad Pitt level.<br><br>I've had to grow up with the knowledge that even when I am wealthy I can still be turned down by any woman of any age due to the way I look.

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