My sister and her fiancé are being impersonated by two fake people for some unknown reason.

This is a pretty hard story for me to “write” because it involves family and other sensitive stuff, so excuse me if it seems a bit jumbled. I also ask of you to please keep in mind that I’m just a 23 year old dude who is confused and looking for help in figuring out wtf is going on.<br><br>I have a sister who is currently 28 and she is currently engaged. A couple of weeks back, my dad was saying how my sister was going to come and see us, but I was confused because I was talking to her the night before and she had no plans of coming here. I was like, “no, dad, she isn’t coming. We talked the other night.” He was like, “no she is, and she’s bringing James.” For some reason, James sounds like a fake name to me, lol, so I’ll use it as a placeholder. I was like, “who the hell is James? Her fiancé’s name is Lance.” But my dad insisted that it was James and not Lance. I kept arguing and saying I talked to her and it was Lance. I was convinced that Lance and my sister broke up and she got a new boyfriend but my dad swore up and down that was not the case. <br><br>I continued to ask my dad if Lance and my sister broke up and he kept saying no and that the two were still together and James was just the boyfriends. I was like, “ James who?” And my dad said James, my sisters fiancé. I was like, “fuck no! Her fiancés name is Lance. What the fuck is going on here?” <br><br>Anyways, my dad said that the two were coming that Saturday and that’s that. I was like, “well, her and Lance are coming to see me too. So, maybe it’s that Saturday.” But my dad said it was definitely not Lance, but James. I was so confused. I asked my dad what happened to Lance and he said that there was no Lance and that James has been with my sister for a long time. I told him I saw Lance like a year ago with my sister and he was like “no, James was with her a year ago.” I don’t know where my dad got James from but he was positive that James is the boyfriend and that Lance doesn’t exist. <br><br>So the Saturday came and I did not see my sister. My dad said that James and her were with him, but I knew damn well that it was Lance and not James. My dad said I was crazy for thinking that and that I’ve never met this Lance dude. I told him I saw him a year ago at our house. He said that I must have seen James and not Lance and that I was batshit crazy. <br><br>I got so sick of this back and forth and I was positive that I wasn’t going crazy. So I asked my dad to send me a picture of “James.” He didn’t want to do it, but he ended up sending me a selfie of my sister and James. James was 100% not Lance. It was a completely different person. I looked at the picture and saw that James followed my sister and vice versa. She had her normal Instagram where she posts selfies and shit, but his IG was private. I asked my dad if he has ever met Lance and he said, “no, of course not! I’ve met James several times though.” I asked him to look up Lance and find his IG or something and compare the two. He declined and looked at me like I was going crazy. <br><br>So I decided to look up Lance myself. I had to get a bit creative, but I was successful. Lance’s IG was still active. He had a normal IG and it was public. I also found that his friends IG page was still active too! His friend had Lance, my sister, and many other people in a picture just a few weeks ago. I didn’t want to show my dad this because he would use it as fuel for the fire to say I’m going crazy. <br><br>I looked up my sister’s name along with James and a completely different set of search engine results popped up. She was with James in several of the pictures. It was completely insane. I looked up her and Lance and saw that they were together a year ago, but “James” wasn’t as active on that side. I also found a wedding website for my “sister” and “James.” It was 100% my sister and not James in the pictures. I did some research and the James she was with had a real account with real people and real pictures. The two were completely different people. I was overjoyed when I found this because I thought it would prove to my dad that I wasn’t crazy and that Lance and my sister were indeed together. <br><br>But that wasn’t the case. My dad did not believe my sister was in the pictures with the real James. He said that I Photoshopped them and that I was going crazy. I was heartbroken and I told him that he is describing me when he is the one describing himself. I asked him if he was sleepwalking or something and he literally said that he was 100% sure James and my sister were with him on Saturday and that I was just making up Lance. I was going insane at this point, but then I got an idea. I asked him to look up the wedding website for James and my sister. But the website wasn’t there anymore! I tried several different combinations and nothing came up. I tried to look for other things but everything that had to do with James was deleted. It was like they completely wiped James’ existence off of the internet. <br><br>I’m just lost at this point. I don’t know if my dad and sister are playing some weird joke on me or if this is something serious. I have no idea what is going on. I’m positive it isn’t gaslighting. I wanted to ask my sister, but that “James” seems like a very sweet guy, so I don’t wanna ruin it for them if this is real. But at the same time, I feel this deep need to know what the fuck is going on. I have heard of fake identities and shit, but at what cost? I don’t even know where to begin to look or what to do. The whole situation is just insane.<br><br>I’m still leaning towards James and my sister being the fake people. Maybe Lance’s friend posted the pics with him and my sister to throw off whoever was watching? Or maybe I’m just batshit crazy and this is the way it’s always been and I’m the delusional one. Am I batshit crazy? Lol. I’d love any help or advice. I’m completely stumped.<br><br>Edit:<br><br>Wow, this post sure blew up. I appreciate all of your kind words. I am not my dad, nor am I pregnant. Thank you all for your support and your stories. I appreciate all of the helpful comments too. I’m very overwhelmed with all of the comments, so I will not reply to everyone, but I appreciate the help and the support that you all gave me. I don’t know where to go or what’s going on, but I will keep everyone posted and on Tuesday, I will go to the library to look up more stuff.