My brother in laws think I’m a gold-digger and I kind of want them to stay that way.

My husband comes from a wealthy family. He has two sisters and a brother and they all share inheritance money. I met my husband when I was 19 and we’ve been together for 7 years. <br><br>My in-laws are all very wealthy and we are doing just fine. They constantly buy us things my husband doesn’t even need but accepts because he knows his family are “generous” like that. <br><br>After we got married, we purchased our dream home. It’s beautiful and exactly what we wanted. My husband’s siblings were concerned because they thought we were spending “too much money” and it was unhealthy to live like that when you’re just starting out. They suggested things like we cut back on our spending, maybe get a different house that’s not so pricey or find ways to cut back on our spending. It’s funny because they all come from wealthy backgrounds and as far as I know none of them have ever had a “budget”.<br><br>I personally feel like it’s not a big deal at all for us but my husband’s brother and sister think we’ve changed because of the money and that I’ve influenced him. I don’t think that’s fair at all but they think I’m a gold digging bitch who only married him for the money. I know it’s not true but honestly I like the fact that they see me as the “evil spouse” who corrupts their brother. <br><br>I don’t want to prove them wrong because they want me to prove I’m different so bad and I feel like I’m winning when they think I’m this shallow gold digging bitch and the truth is I’m not even close to that.