Do you guys also find it exhausting being the ones to try to make the girl feel comfortable in her body?

I’m 23M and i recently was told by my boyfriend that he feels some type of pressure to constantly remind me he finds me attractive. He’s always making sure I’m okay and telling me how beautiful I think I am, and he’s told me he’s obsessed with me. I’m about 40lbs over what I should be. I’m fat, I get it. And i don’t need him to be my confidence. I have something. But i understand what he means. It is exhausting trying to make other people comfortable. I only figured this out recently and i think it’s so great that this is an actual sub dedicated to it!<br><br>Edit: I should clarify that I do not feel any pressure from my boyfriend. He’s very comfortable with letting me set the pace and we dont even have sex. Not that it means anything but I can tell he’s very overweight as well. He’s a chubby man. Just wanted to clarify and thank everyone for the kind words ily all very much!