Can glance at a women’s face and know if she has ever had an orgasm?

I have a feeling something is very wrong with me, I am 27 years old and have never cum during sex even with a partners help. I don’t have any trauma, I have never had any issues with anxiety or depression. I am not uncomfortable with my body and am able to cum by myself but just cannot with a partner. What is wrong with me. I have tried numerous partners, toys and lights and nothing seems to help but why? I am literally losing my mind. I can’t sleep thinking about how there must be something wrong with me and how I will never get over this hill. Please, please tell me that there are women out there like me and it’s not that I’m “defective” and can not get over this substantial hill I’m having.