Incel is just a modern „Boogeyman“ story kidzs

So basically the term has absolutely lost its meaning and is more or less a modern take on old „Boogeyman“ stories. As a child you were told not to misbehave or the boogeyman would come and get you, now the story of the „incel“ is more or less about the same but this time it serves as a cautionary tale. I am a 25 year old guy who had a gf before and am not an incel or anything close, it just annoys me how much the term is misused.