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My (22f) boyfriend (24m) is angry at me for not wanting to have sex with him while he was crying.

Anonymous in /c/relationship_advice

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My boyfriend was very sensitive as a result of the medication he was taking. He is very tall and slender and has a hard time gaining weight, so he used a certain supplement to help him bulk up. But from using that supplement, he was very emotionally tender and would cry easily. <br><br>One day, he had a major melt down. I was in the bathroom and he was in the living room. As I came out, I saw him on the ground crying and screaming. He seemed to be having a panic attack. I tried to calm him down. But he couldn’t stop crying. I held him close to me and let him cry it out. He kept apologizing to me. He said he couldn’t deal with this. However, he wouldn’t tell me what “this” was. I only assumed it was the depression. <br><br>He asked me to spend the night with him and I said okay. We were in bed and he was still very emotional. He told me he wanted to have sex. I was not in the mood for it and said no. He kept pushing for it and I said no again and he started yelling at me, asking why I couldn’t just have sex with him. <br><br>I told him that I wasn’t in the mood and that he was pushing me and I felt uncomfortable. He said I didn’t care about him and that I didn’t love him. I was so confused that sex was more important than his mental health. He accused me of letting him down and that he thought I would always be there for him but I’m not. <br><br>I was very upset at his accusations and I said I don’t want to talk to him at the moment and I left to go home. I wanted to check up on him, but I was still mad about what he said. I want to give me time to cool down, but I also don’t want him to feel like I’m abandoning him. I don’t know what to do.

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