Question for the guys

I have a question, but I want a guy to answer it because I believe that if a highly sexualized woman wants to talk to a guy who is a bit less sexualized she will be shot down. <br><br>This is from my friend’s perspective, she is a 22 year old woman and she is a bit overweight but not obese. I think she is just about 140 pounds at 5’4\” but her body is more hourglass than anything else. I think her waist is around 25 inches, bust is 34 inches, hips are 36 inches, and her butt is pretty big. She has a very pretty face too, but whenever she tries to date outside of her race she is immediately turned down, but people of her race don’t turn her down because they think she is pretty. <br><br>Let’s just say she is African and she goes for white guys. She had a few white guys that were a bit interested in her in high school, but they never actually went out with her. She has some crushes on white and black guys in college but only the black guys return her feelings. <br><br>She doesn’t understand what is going on and she thinks she is unattractive sometimes. I told her she is pretty, and that white guys just don’t really care for her body type. They like petite women or they like women with big boobs, a small waist, and a flat butt. Whether or not this is true, I have no idea. I am a girl, but I am white so this doesn’t apply to me. But I think it might apply to my friend. She is very frustrated with dating and she just doesn’t understand why she isn’t getting any attention. I am tired of trying to explain it to her, and I want a guy’s perspective.