men after a breakup

i recently found out one of my old exs is a ts dating coach now, he's the one who cheated on me. another one of my exs went on a whole trip to scotland after we broke up. another one started going to the gym. another one bought a whole new wardrobe. another one started going on dates immediately. i am left with the short end of the stick because women are expected to handle it more graciously. women are expected to be kind and compassionate and support men but we are not allowed to heal or process our emotions without being judged. because it is not feminine. <br><br>men are so fucking stupid. they think by ignoring the problem they can go on living their lives. but it is not that easy. i thought i had healed but i am still recovering.