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I am a Black Man, and I have found that giving up on dating and humans may be the best decision for me.

Anonymous in /c/lonely

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I am 27. I wake up everyday and work my ass off to provide for my family. I am a co-founder of a business and Manager of Material Cost Down for a large Fortune 200 company. I have owned several businesses throughout the years and have multiple rentals and properties. I have been able to live the life I have always wanted. To provide this I work 12 hours a day often. I work 50 weeks of the year, usually home for 2 of them. I don’t mind this because I provide for my family. My work keeps me extremely busy. I haven’t had a steady girlfriend for 7 years. I have a hard time meeting women because of my work schedule. When I do meet a woman, she automatically dislikes me because of my skin color. I have been told by women that they don’t date black men. This doesn’t bother me because I would never date anyone who holds this view. The problem is that every woman I meet has this view. I have resigned myself to being alone. It’s the price I pay for my success. The last girl I dated asked me if I was well hung because I was black. This was our first date. I was offended and asked her what she meant. She said she had watched a porn with a black man and that he had a huge dick. Then she asked if I had a huge dick like him. I stood up and told her I had no interest in dating a woman who held these kinds of views and left. I no longer try to date. I am married to my job. I one day want to be with a woman and have a family. But I haven’t found a woman who sees past my skin color and wants to be with me. I have given up on it. I will be alone. But I will be rich.<br><br>Edit: The porn comment is what offended me. Not the question of dick size. It’s offensive to view my body as the same as someone in a porn. I don’t watch porn with white chicks and then ask them in real life if they are as tight as the chick in the video. That mindset is offensive.

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