My wife wants to stop being intimate. I don’t

I’m really nervous about writing this. <br><br>My wife and I got married almost 5 years ago. We have a 1 year old daughter. <br><br>We used to have sex almost every night. So much so that it became frustrating, in hindsight. <br><br>But I liked it. I loved her so much and it felt amazing. I get home from work and we would go right for it, almost every time. This is what I expected when I got married. I love this type of intimacy. <br><br>But then it just slowed down. It went from twice a day to once a week, then once a month, to once every 2 months. <br><br>I am extremely sexually frustrated now. <br><br>I asked why she doesn’t want to have sex anymore and she gets mad at me. She says she’s tired or not in the mood. <br><br>She says I should just be happy that we have a family and stop being so shallow. But I miss this intimacy with her. It’s the one thing I can’t get anywhere else. <br><br>I miss holding her. I miss being able to kiss. I miss going for it whenever I wanted. <br><br>I just want to be able to do that again. <br><br>I know I’m not in the wrong but I still can’t help but feel guilty.