AITA for refusing to leave the kitchen when my mom told me to pass through the main hall

I have 2 sisters their names are Rachel (19F) and Sarah (16F) they're both very beautiful girls and they take pride of being ladies, they get along pretty much well with our mother as for me (15F) I'm more of a tomboy and I couldn't care less about what other people think of me, mom doesn't really like me hanging out with the boys in my school or wearing "men's" clothing and she always says that I should be more feminine, recently she got me a flowy sundress to wear it to my aunt's birthday party which was yesterday, I didn't wanna wear it and I told my mom I wanna wear a graphic tee and sweatpants instead but she said that it's not a lady thing to do and I should wear what she got for me and I told her that I'm not gonna wear it and she was pissed, at dinner my dad told me to pass the salt and there's only two ways to get it, picking it up from the table or passing through the main hall, my mom saw her chance and told me to go get it from the dining table and I refused and passed through the hall and she started yelling and cursing at me for embarrassing her and wearing "men's" clothes and my dad defended me and told her to get over it and that I can wear whatever I want and my sisters told her that I was right because she made her choice very clear and mom's still very mad at me