UPDATE: I've been with my partner for 6 years and have known him for 10, but today I found out he is petty, inconsiderate and rude.

I'd just like to start by saying thank you to everyone who gave advice. It seemed like a lot of people were divided on what should happen next. Some said he was a waste of time (you guys were super encouraging and persuasive), some said to leave him but give him a chance to make it up to me, and some said just talk to him. I decided to go with the last suggestion.<br><br>I got home from work and he was in the kitchen taking stuff out for dinner. He asked what I wanted to eat and I said to just make whatever because I didn't care. He asked if I was okay and I said I'm fine. He offered to make my favourite but I just said I didn't mind. Finally he asked if everything was okay. I sat down at the island in the kitchen and said everything wasn't okay. I showed him the note I wrote (see original post) and read it to him as he read it out loud from the paper. I told him how I felt, and I actually cried which I don't do often. He apologised and said it wasn't malicious, and that he just doesn't like the way I eat. I asked him if he could just let me do it how I want since I only do it once or twice a year, and he said he'd let me from now on. He made my favourite meal and we ate together, and things seem good again. <br><br>He suggested we take out the garbage since we were both off work tomorrow, and I said okay even though I was tired and I had to wake up at 7am to take out the trash. He took all 5 bags outside by himself. I'm feeling a little better, and he seems to care again. So I guess we'll see how things go from here.<br><br>EDIT: I feel like I need to clarify a few things. Some of you are saying that this isn't petty, and that it's no big deal. It isn't, which is what makes this so hard. It's not a big deal to eat my food the way I want to. Also, he did apologise but he also laughed as he was doing it (according to the girl who saw him and the manager who heard him).