Women, do you ever stare at men for the same reasons men stare at women?

I normally don't post on chambers because I don't want any of my co-workers finding it and getting the wrong impression. But, I think my question is relevant to this sub. <br><br>I'm a pretty average looking woman. I don't have a lot of trouble attracting men I'm just not the type that men turn their heads for when I walk past them. I've date lots of guys, good looking and not so. I have been in a few long term relationships with good looking men and not so. I'm not calling myself ugly, just not head turning. I don't really like to date because I've been told I'm "too good looking to be friend zoned". Yep, that's a direct quote. <br><br>I --like nearly every woman-- have been sexually harassed to the point I've had to contact the police because the guy wouldn't take no for an answer. I've delt with guys grabbing me, following me, and threatening to rape me if I didn't go out with them. I've had a stalker before. <br><br>My question is pretty simple. I've had plenty of men stare at me for all the reasons women don't like. We all know what I'm talking about. Women, do you ever look discreetly at a guy in the same way that men look at us? I'm not talking at a bar with a date, I'm talking at work or grocery store, etc.