What is the essence of a man?

The question is to be interpreted in the Heideggerian sense.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>As a man, what do you most fundamentally feel "a part of" when you're a man? <br><br>When you do what you feel like doing, does it feel like you are doing it because "it is like a man"? <br><br>When you do something you don't want to do, does it feel like you are doing it because it's "what a man must do"?<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>p.s. if you say anything like "isn't X more important than your* masculinity?" just give yourself another year to mature.