My sister in law is an asshole!

Hello! I am currently 20 weeks pregnant with twins. I also have a 6 year old daughter. I'm exhausted all the time, so I take it easy when I can. My husband and I are the only people who help around the house.<br><br>My sister in law lives a few hours away. She came to visit for a day, and expected me to cater to her the entire time. Before she got to my house, she was texting me all kinds of snack requests, and meal requests. I was happy to do it, but the requests were getting ridiculous. I told her I would make her lunch, and asked her what she wanted. Instead of responding, she just showed up at my house. I didn't have anything made yet because I was expecting her to respond to the text.<br><br>She showed up, and just sat on my couch. Didn't say anything to me or my daughter. My daughter tried to talk to her, but she just kept staring at her phone. I offered to make her lunch, but she said to make her breakfast instead. I made her bacon, eggs, and toast, and she said it was gross? I was really confused because I make really good bacon, eggs, and toast. She asked what kind of eggs I used, and when I told her, she said those were gross eggs. I told her the next time she comes, I'll make sure to get her the "good" kind of eggs.<br><br>After that, I made her a fruit salad, and she told me to make her a different snack. This went on for hours. At one point, I was sitting on the couch, and she asked me to get her a glass of water. I told her I was tired, and could she please get it herself? She looked at me like I had just told her to go fuck herself. Instead of getting the water herself, she just sat there with her mouth open, looking at me. I got her a glass of water.<br><br>Later, she asked me to make her a snack again. I made her what she asked for, but she didn't like it. So I made her something else, but she didn't like that either. I finally lost it, and yelled at her. I told her she was being rude. That I was catering to her the entire time she was here, and she couldn't show a little gratitude? I told her she was being an asshole, and she had no right to ask me for anything else.<br><br>She called my husband at work, and told him I was being mean to her. I called him, and told him what happened. He said he would talk to her, and she would be leaving soon.<br><br>She left without even saying goodbye to me or my daughter. My husband asked me what happened, and I told him everything. He didn't say much, but he was mad at her too. He said she's been an asshole for years, and he doesn't know why.<br><br>That was last week, and I haven't heard from her since. My husband told me she's not allowed back at my house.<br><br>I just needed to get this off my chest, because I've been sitting on this anger for a while.