My girlfriend [22F] of 18 months asked my [21M] preference about her pubic hair and now finds me "revolting"
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So yesterday my girlfriend casually asked me how I prefer pubic hair to be groomed. She usually keeps hers short, but neat. I assumed she was just looking to change things up and wanted my opinion so I answered honestly and said that I find completely shaven attractive, but in the grand scheme of things I couldn't care less, it's not a turn off if there's hair, and that I like the way she has it now. <br><br>Well it turns out she had had a lecture today at college (she studies psychology) and the topic was on peadophilia. Apparently one of the talking points was that a normal preliminary sign of a potential paedophile is that they find completely shaven pubic areas attractive. <br><br>When she told me this, I asked her "are you seriously calling me a paedophile because I find completely shaven attractive? Or are you just trying to avoid blaming your professor and this freaking lecture you had for making you think this?" <br><br>She basically confirmed that it was the lecturer who made her think I am "revolting" for this and that she doesn't think I am one, but is now concerned that I might be. <br><br>I broke up with her. <br><br>But I still can't get over that this professor is listing normal sexual preferences as potential indicators of paedo behaviour. Seriously, whoever you are you need to get your head examined, you just broke up a happy couple because of your kinkshaming<br><br>​<br><br>​<br><br>EDIT: I just want to say, I didn't break up with her because she thinks I am revolting for other reasons. This was the final straw in an already problematic relationship. I'm just angry at the professor and that my ex used his opinion to further destabilize a relationship that already had problems.
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