I’m not Gay, But I’m Not Dating Anymore

I used to look at gay guys and think it was a choice, especially since I was brought up in a hardcore Christian household. Looking back I realize that was a silly way of thinking. Gay guys are born gay, its not a choice. As a 43 year old man I’ve come to the realization that I can’t stand women, at least not in today’s day and age. I’m not Gay, but I have decided that I’m not dating anymore women. The reason why is that I’m just not attracted to them anymore. I have been told this is called “Gay by Exception”, but I just can’t stand todays women. In my late 20’s and early 30’s I would meet a nice girl and she would want to be my girlfriend. Its not like I was going out to bars every night searching for pussy. I was working a job and at least 50% of the time that I met a woman she would express interest in me first. I remember one time I was at a book store. I had just graduated with my 2nd degree and was thinking about applying for a masters program. I was looking at some books and this young girl kept looking at me. I didn’t think much of it, and I thought she was just curious. Its not like I hit the gym and was muscle bound, but I was in good shape. Anyways, I go up to the register to pay for the book and she steps in front of me and says “Sorry, but I haven’t seen you around before, are you from around here?”. I’ve lived in the same city my whole life, so I was shocked she didn’t recognize me. Anyways, she was very nice, I took her out on a date, we had sex, and we had a relationship. This happened repeatedly in my 20’s and 30’s. It wasn’t uncommon for a woman to approach me at a store or while I was out and about. Fast forward to my 30’s. Suddenly I noticed it was getting harder to meet women. They just weren’t as approachable as they were in the past. I would go to the grocery store, book store, or other places I would hang out and the women just weren’t approachable. They were all on their phones texting or browsing social media. It got to the point where I would go out to eat or go to the store and I really didn’t notice women anymore. I have always been a bit of a homebody so I didn’t think much of it. I wasn’t concerned about meeting a woman and I was just happy with my life as it was. In my late 30’s I met my ex-wife. We met at a coffee house that I go to. Its a nice coffee house, not too many people go there and its actually a very nice place to go if you want to sit down and read a book, or just hang out. Anyways, she was sitting down and she asked me if I would grab a sugar packet for her. I thought nothing of it and as I was reaching for the sugar packet she said “you know you’re really cute”. I was shocked that she said that. It had been a long time since a woman had approached me and told me that I was cute. We got talking and she seemed nice. We went on a few dates and then I asked her to marry me after about a year. She said yes. Things were good until I found out she was cheating on me. I divorced her and realized that women aren’t the same as they used to be. I remember in the 80’s and 90’s women were loyal and cared about their families. They were loyal to their spouses, they took pride in their work around the house, and women would do anything to keep their families happy. Todays women are not like this at all. They are selfish, they don’t really care about their families, and they seem to be very narcissistic. They are so self absorbed that they don’t care about anybody but themselves. I’ve dabbled in dating here and there. I’ll go to a coffee house and sit down at a table. Sometimes a woman will notice me and come over and talk to me. Its probably about 10% of the time that a woman will approach me. Usually I sit there and women just ignore me. They don’t even make eye contact with me anymore. They are all on their phones and I don’t think they even care that men are around. If I’m sitting at a table at a coffee house working on my laptop and a women sits at the table next to me, she will usually put in her airpods and ignore me the whole time. Its not like I expect every woman to want to talk to me, but I find it very rude that they won’t even acknowledge my presence. I have also tried online dating. I’ve been on Bumble, Tinder, OkCupid, and a few other dating sites. I’ve had very bad experiences. Women don’t want to meet in person. They seem to want to chat endlessly on the dating app. I’ve had women chat with me for weeks and then I will suggest meeting in person and they will stop talking to me. Women are also extremely shallow. If you don’t have full blown muscle heads, they aren’t interested. They want tall men with big muscles and six packs. I will admit that I’m not the most attractive man in the world, but I take care of myself and I’m in good shape. I’ve been told by multiple women that I’m not attractive. One woman told me that I could be attractive if I got bigger muscles. I’m just not interested in dating anymore. This may sound weird, but I’m just not attracted to todays women. I’m not Gay, but I’m just not sexually or romantically attracted to women anymore. I don’t think its that I’m not attracted to women, I think its that todays women are so narcissistic and shallow that I just don’t find them attractive. I’ve always believed in treating women with respect, and I feel like todays women don’t even deserve respect. I would say about 70% of women that I’ve met the last few years are just complete bitches. They think they are gods gift to the world and that they deserve everything they want, without even putting in any effort. In conclusion, I’ve just come to the realization that I’m not attracted to todays women. I’m not Gay, but I just don’t want to date anymore women. I’m not going to go out of my way to meet women because I just don’t think they are worth my time. I don’t really care if anybody thinks I should just “Try Again”, because I’m just not interested in trying to date women anymore. Edit: Grammar

I’m not Gay, But I’m Not Dating Anymore

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