Men are so fucking nosy

I hate people who actively seek to know other people's personal business. Men are the worst at this. They like to see themselves as protective but this is not the case. They have no business knowing this information and yet they steal it anyway, usually because they want to know and use it against their target. They're not interested in general gossip but actively seek out information from others without caring how the subject will feel. They have no concern for the subject and are only interested in satisfying their own sordid desires. The best thing to do here is say that it's none of his business and constantly deflect. I can't believe these kinds of people exist.